Too Big To Fail

It appears that the new formula for long term success (if you define success as staying in business vs. going out of business) is just to grow so big that you are 'Too Big To Fail'. We first heard about this concept in relation to big financial institutions and now it is being applied to the US automotive industry.

While I am very sympathetic to the many individuals that would be hurt by the failures of these companies, and the failure of them would certainly be extremely painful in the short term, saving them will potentially have even more damaging long term effects that no one is talking about. By saving these companies we are building a system that has no consequences. There is no reason to strive for excellence or invest in innovation if you can get by being mediocre; and there is no reason to be wise and responsible if there is no consequence for making very risky loosing bets. The only requirement for success is to grow big enough that you are too big to fail.

And now, too big is becoming relative. It is not just the biggest banks and biggest car companies that are using this rationale, I have recently seen this mentality begin to permeate the local non profit sector. A local non-profit I am aware of is in the process of dealing with a very difficult situation that could feasibly impact the agencies ability to continue. Most of the ideas being raised for addressing their problem are very positive but, one of the options that has actually been suggested is to simply do nothing. Why would they do nothing? Because as the argument goes, the agency provides too many critical services to be allowed to fail, so someone will bail them out. They are not by any means a huge non-profit by national standards but they are the one of the biggest fishes in their small pond.

If this trend continues what are we teaching our next generation of leaders?

Our Greatest Fear

Why aren't you chasing your dreams? What are you afraid of? Failing? I think not. I think you are more afraid of success than failure. Why? Because people who succeed stand out. People who fail fit in and deep down that is what we all want, to fit in.

You are saying NO! that is backwards. We all want to stand out, be different and change the world.

Really? Think about it, from our earliest days, our society breads mediocrity. Remember back in grade school, the smart kids were the ones who were always made fun of. They were the geeks and the nerds.

Did you ever pretend that math or science were not easy for you, or not tell anyone that you really enjoyed reading the Scarlett Letter? Did you ever hide the fact that you were the one who got the 100 on the test and ruined the curve for everyone else?

Well stop. We need you to lead. We need you to be amazing. We need you to change the world.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light , not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We were born to make and manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

- Marianne Williamson, from A Return to Love

The Truth About You

As previously discussed in this space I am reviewing books as part of the Thomas Nelson Book Review Blogger project. Here is my review of The Truth About You by Marcus Buckingham. Enjoy!

The Truth About You is really more than a book. It would be better described as a learning experience. If I had only two words to describe this experience they would be: Simple and Profound. As is true with most ideas that contain the potential to transform your life, the concepts presented are deceivingly simple, but if successfully implemented could have a profound impact on your life and work.

If you are new to the work of Marcus Buckingham, reading The Truth About You will provide a good introduction, and will likely lead you to seek out more about his work. The combination of the introductory DVD, book and ‘rememo’ activities should cause you to rethink your long-held beliefs about personal strengths, weaknesses and how you can maximize your performance, productivity and enjoyment of work. Sound like an impossible dream? It may be, but Buckingham, in his oversimplified way, sells it convincingly.

Unfortunately, for seasoned Buckingham followers there is really nothing new here. It is basically a very simplified repackaging of the key points and activities from Go Put Your Strengths to Work and Trombone Player Wanted. Save yourself a few bucks by finding the old copies, dusting them off, and having another go at it.

Worldwide Candle Lighting

Next Sunday, December 14th is the Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting Ceremony,which is held the 2nd Sunday of December every year as a remembrance of children who have passed away. Candles are lit and burned for one hour starting at 7 pm (local time) worldwide.

You can go to an actual service as listed on the site or hold a personal one at your own home. This year Deb and I will have our second annual personal service for Connor and his many friends who have passed away.

Please light a candle and say a prayer for Connor and his friends, and our families on December 14th at 7 pm. Thank you for remembering us!

Please also support children and families dealing with complex health care needs this holiday season through www.connorshouse.org!

In the paper

While most people I know who serve in the non-profit/religious worlds do not do it for the publicity (in fact most of them shy away from any type of accolades) it is still always nice when what you are doing to support others gets noticed and recognized. One of the greatest benefits of this is that it helps spread the word about what you are doing and hopefully connects more people who need the type of the support you are providing with your organization.

Today our local paper ran an article about a support group my mother-in-law started six years ago to support mothers of children with special needs. I'm proud of all the work she has done and the families she is helping. (The only bad part is that unfortunately you don't get to see the beautiful picture of my wife in the online version).

http://www.dailyrecord.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2008812030311

If you could change your life

Seth Godin today posed the question; If you could change your life...would you? Seth postulates that there are people out there who he is convinced that given the right teaching, encouragement and opportunity can change the world. And in order to put his theory to the test he is creating a 6 month apprenticeship program that he dubs an Alternative-MBA. He has made the turn around time from announcement to program commencement ridiculously quick (approx 6 weeks) and if he cannot find a small group of amazing people to take on he will cancel the program.

You can read more about it by following the links above but suffice it to say that while it is crazy and audacious, it is one of the most fantastic and intriguing ideas I have heard about in a long time.

Are you bold enough? Do you believe in yourself and your dreams enough to try?

Quotes

I think God can speak to us in many ways. One of the ways I believe he speaks is through the concise ideas of others that can be easily understood and shared, typically called quotes. The best of these ideas move us to action, even if only the action we undertake is self-reflection which is perhaps the most powerful action of all. Today I will share a few quotes with you that have been causing me to reflect recently.

"In order to reach people that no one is reaching you need to do things that no one is doing. If you are going to do things that no one is doing you must stop doing what everyone else is doing." -Craig Groeschel

"Leadership that matters to God is leadership in priorities and activities that matter to God." -Gary Haugen

"When life gives you lemons...make grape juice then sit back and let everyone wonder how you did it." -anonymous

"With God 3% can be a majority" -Gary Haugen

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, It's the only thing that ever has." -Margaret Mead